Thoughts about a more holistic view on the matter at hand
Since 2020, we have witnessed and experienced an increase in polarisation. This is the reconciliation of duality, the chaos before a new state. Polarities are still two sides of the same coin, part of the one.
Within everyone, there is a battle of good and evil going on. As the Cherokee legend says, a white and black wolf are competing within each of us. According to the legend, the wolf you feed will win.
Denying the black or white wolf attitude inside makes us unbalanced and polarised. Trying to ‘heal’ the dark side is still dualism. The task is to recognise both sides and harmonise and balance them to transcend dualism to the next level, working and dancing with the polarities within yourself.
It is not about becoming the grey in the middle but complementing and completing the black and white side. Together, the strengths and weaknesses of both these opposite halves make you whole and add a third dimension. The trinity overcomes the duality.
When you deny your dark side, you suppress it, and it will play up by making you imbalanced and vulnerable to manipulation by others. This denial has been happening in the world for centuries.
It is not about ‘them’ who enhance and misuse your imbalance; it is about you. Claim back your power and the responsibility that goes with it by acknowledging and embracing your shadow side instead of being a victim and blaming ‘them’ or the system. Have the courage to start with yourself, and don’t wait for ‘them’.
The wrongdoing of ‘them’ is their dark side overplaying. And in that sense, they deny and suppress their good side and are also imbalanced.
Both opposite sides required
“Everything is dual. Everything has poles. Everything has its pair of opposites. Like and unlike are the same. Opposites are identical in nature but different in degree. All paradoxes may be reconciled.” (Kybalion).
You cannot eliminate half of yourself, bad or good, and be in balance. Both sides of you are required to create. Polarity creates tension that allows movement to take place, attraction and repulsion that spark evolution.
Per definition, a magnet without a north or south pole is no magnet. One pole being suppressed or overacting is also not a proper magnet because both poles have to be equally strong to work together and create a magnetic field. A battery has a plus and minus pole to create and let electricity stream. One without the other won’t work.
Everything is energy. Energy is neither right nor wrong; it is simply energy. Energy is shaping matter. Albert Einstein’s famous equation E=mc² tells us already that on one side of the equation is energy (E), and on the other side is mass (m).
Nobel prize winner Werner Heisenberg taught us in 1931 that energy makes up 99.9999999 % of reality. Or say it in a different way: the physical reality is made up of 99.9999999 % ‘no-thingness’. The only reality is the vibration of energies, so-called quanta or particles being condensed forms of energy. So, matter itself is made up of fields of energy.
Thus, humans are also energy systems of electromagnetic vibrations that are interconnected. The ecosystem of the ‘inner environment’ (body, mind, heart, spirit) of people and their ‘outer environment’ (physical, digital, social). There is a dance that takes place between the energy within us and the energies around us.
By increasing your energy level, through more carefully choosing your thoughts, emotions, food, company, information, and environment, you can influence which energy ranges outside you get entangled and resonate and, therefore, affect you.
By shortcutting the electromagnetic circuit of humans by mainstream media’s fear porn or the misuse of government force, the flow of energy is being redirected to other agendas, leaving your battery drained. With just enough life-force energy left to survive, so that you don’t have the urge to resist or revolt against these agendas.
Transcend the imbalance and disorder
So the bad guys and the good guys, the rich and the poor, the rulers and the ruled, men and women, the different religions and the secular, the vaccinated and the unvaccinated, matter and spirit, consciousness and energy, both polarised sides have to acknowledge the other part as well.
Only then can each of us transcend the imbalance and disorder in the ecosystem of body, mind, heart, and soul and in the artificial systems (such as financial, political, technical, and medical) we created over time in the outer environment around us.
To be vibrant and alive, both opposite sides are required and have to work together for the whole, being more than its separate components. The opposites of male and female are necessary to create a new life. Polarities coming together create unity and harmony.
Threefold triangle
It is not about the grey between black and white, the balance between the south and north pools on a magnet, or the neutral between plus and minus on a battery. It is about a threefold triangle of natural equilibrium, which is more than the two opposite parts. It creates harmony between its quality components.
A triangle is a stronger and more stable form. It embodies the qualities of strength, stability, and the prime creative life force. The Trinity is a governing centre in which duality occurs. In constructions, beams are fitted into triangles to give maximum strength to the weight-bearing structures.
The law of Trinity keeps opposites in a perfectly balanced, pulsating, circular/spherical motion that ensures they become complementary in the formation of a new unity, the third state.
When one is in that third state, you know it and don’t need a middleman or an expert to tell you. Just when you fall in love, you know it. Nobody goes to a doctor asking for a test to make sure that they are really in love.
While in this state of falling in love, you know exactly what to do to stay there until influences from outside compromise this harmonious state. The point is staying in love, which takes a conscious effort.
Most of us have experienced “falling in love” and are also aware of the continuous work a relationship requires to stay “in love.” Handle your internal opposites and the opposite of them out there equally, and we will together successfully navigate this transformational phase in human history. Enough individuals in this third state will form a critical mass that will tip the whole of humanity into the next stage of evolution.
Focus on the sweet spot between the opposites to balance them. Then, go beyond the opposites towards the third dimension to create something new and better for all involved. It’s very simple but not easy to do.
By reconciling the opposite and complementary parts and focusing on the third part, the whole, we can give birth naturally to a new society about compassion and interdependence—one that everybody can embrace and love. By addressing the inner disharmony within ourselves, we contribute to healing the whole system.
René Stevens
CEO Atelier V real estate BV