We are witnessing and experienced an increase in polarization over the last two years. This is the reconciliation of duality, the chaos before a new state.
Within everyone, there is a battle of good and bad going on. As the Cherokee legend says, a white and black wolf is competing with each of us. According to the legend, the wolf you feed will win.
Denying the black or the white wolf attitude inside makes us unbalanced and polarised. Trying to ‘heal’ the dark side is still dualism. The task is to recognize both sides and harmonize and balance them to transcend dualism to the next level. Working and dancing with the polarities within yourself.
It is not about becoming the grey in the middle but complementing and completing the black and white side. Together the strengths and weaknesses of both these opposite halves make you whole and add a third dimension. The trinity overcomes the duality.
When you deny your dark side you suppress it, and it will play up by making you imbalanced and vulnerable to manipulation by others. This has been happening in the world for centuries.
It is not about ‘them’ who enhance your imbalance and misuse it, it is about you. Claim your power and the responsibility that goes with it back by acknowledging and embracing your shadow side instead of being a victim and blaming ‘them’ or the system. Have the courage to start with yourself and don’t wait for ‘them’.
The wrongdoing of ‘them’ is their dark side overplaying. And in that sense, they deny and suppress their good side. Being in imbalance as well.
“Everything is dual. Everything has poles. Everything has its pair of opposites. Like and unlike are the same. Opposites are identical in nature but different in degree. All paradoxes may be reconciled.”- Kybalion.
You cannot cut out half of yourself, bad or good, and be in balance. Both sides in you are required to create. Polarity creates tension that allows movement to take place, attraction and repulsion that spark evolution.
Per definition, a magnet without a north or south pole is no magnet. One pole being suppressed or overacting is also no proper magnet because both poles have to be equally strong to work together and create a magnetic field. A battery has a plus and minus pole to create and let electricity stream. One without the other won’t work.
Everything is energy. Energy is neither right nor wrong, it is simply energy. Energy is shaping matter. Albert Einstein’s famous equation E=mc² tells us already that on one side of the equation is energy (E) and on the other side is mass (m).
Nobel prize winner Werner Heisenberg taught us in 1931 that energy makes up 99.9999999 % of reality. Or say it in a different way the physical reality is made up of 99.9999999 % ‘no-thingness’. The only reality is the vibration of energies, so-called quanta or particles being condensed forms of energy. So matter itself is made up of fields of energy.
Thus humans are also energy systems of electromagnetic vibrations and interconnected. The ecosystem of the ‘inner environment’ (body, mind, heart, spirit) of people and their ‘outer environment’ (physical, digital, social). There is a dance that takes place between the energy within us and the energies around us.
By increasing your own energy level, by choosing more carefully your thoughts, emotions, food, company, information, and environment, you influence which energy ranges that are outside you get entangled and resonate and therefore affect you.
By shortcutting the electromagnetic circuit of humans by mainstream media’s fear-porn or the misuse of government force, the flow of energy is being redirected to other agendas, leaving your battery drained. With just enough life-force energy left to survive so that you don’t have the urge to resist or revolt against these agendas.
So the bad guys and the good guys, the rich and the poor, the rulers and the ruled, men and women, the different religions and the secular, the vaccinated and the unvaccinated, both polarised sides have to acknowledge the other part as well.
Only then can each of us transcend the imbalance and disorder in the ecosystem of body, mind, heart, soul and in the artificial systems (such as financial, political, technical, medical) we created over time in the outer environment around us.
To be vibrant and alive both opposite sides are required and have to work together for the whole, being more than its separate components. To create a new life the opposites of male and female are required.
It is not about the grey between black and white or the balance between the south and north pool on a magnet or the neutral between plus and minus on a battery. It is about a threefold triangle of natural equilibrium, that is more than the two opposite parts.
A triangle is a stronger and more stable form. It embodies the qualities of strength, stability, and the prime creative life force. In constructions, beams are fitted into triangles to give maximum strength to the weight-bearing structures.
When one is in that third state you know it and don’t need a middleman or an expert to tell you. Just when you fall in love you know it. Nobody goes to a doctor asking for a test to make sure that you are really in love.
While in this state of falling in love you know exactly what to do to stay there until influences from outside compromise this harmonious state. The point is staying in love, which takes a conscious effort.
Most of us have the experience of “falling in love” and are also aware of the continuous work a relationship requires to stay “being in love”. Handle your internal opposites and the opposite of them out there equally and we will together successfully navigate this transformational phase in human history.
Focus on the sweet spot in between the opposites to balance them and go beyond to the third dimension as well to create with them something new and better for all involved. It’s very simple but not easy to do.
By reconciling the opposite and complementary parts plus focusing on the third part, the whole, we can give natural birth to a new society. About compassion and interdependence. One that everybody can embrace and love.
CEO Atelier V real estate BV